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Published September 12, 2025

How to help your child overcome Maths anxiety

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Maths anxiety is a negative emotional reaction to mathematics that acts as an ’emotional handbrake’ on progress. It can range from mild tension to a deep-rooted fear, interfering with a child’s ability to solve problems in school and everyday life.

Recognising the Signs

Maths anxiety affects thousands across the UK, with 36% of 15–24-year-olds feeling anxious about maths. It can manifest as poor behaviour, frustration, or helplessness. Common signs include:

Automatic “I don’t know”

Responding immediately without attempting to process the problem.

Avoidance

Avoiding homework, doing the bare minimum, or spending too long on easy questions to delay tackling harder ones.

Steps to Overcome Maths Anxiety

1. Understand the Growth Zone Model

This model helps children name their feelings. The goal is the Growth Zone, where learning is challenging but achievable.

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2. Use the Relaxation Response

When a child enters the Anxiety Zone, learning stops. This simple technique helps switch off the ‘fight or flight’ response.

  • Focus: Concentrate on breathing or a calming word.
  • Repeat: Repeat the word in time with their breathing.
  • Return: Once calm, they can return to the problem.

3. Create the Right Environment

Two key adjustments at home make a huge difference:

  • Ease Time Pressure: Allow plenty of thinking time before asking for an answer. Rushing can trigger panic.
  • Make Maths Creative: Connect maths to real life through baking, games, or planning trips.

Supporting Your Child at Home

Your attitude has a huge impact. Staying positive and framing maths as an interesting puzzle can change their entire perspective. Here are some fun games to play:

Rock, Paper, Fingers 🎲

Play ‘rock, paper, scissors’ but instead, both hold up 1-5 fingers. The first to shout out the total number of fingers wins.

Home Shop 🛍️

Set up a ‘shop’ with toys, each with a price tag (e.g., 5p, 10p, 20p). Use real coins to practice giving the correct money and calculating change.

Shape Hunt 🏠

Go on a hunt for shapes around your home (e.g., find 5 circles, 3 rectangles, 1 cylinder). Take pictures on a phone to keep track of what you’ve found.

Grape Bonds 🍇

Use 10 grapes to practice number bonds. Hide some under a bowl and ask your child to work out how many are hidden. “There are 7 grapes here, so how many are hiding?”

How Tutorful Can Help

Maths anxiety is a widespread issue, but it can be overcome. Small actions at home make a big difference, but sometimes one-to-one support is the key to unlocking confidence. A dedicated maths tutor can provide a safe space to ask questions and work at a pace that’s right for your child.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is math anxiety a real thing?

A: Yes, absolutely. It’s a recognised emotional response that can cause genuine stress, worry, or even panic when faced with maths, which can block cognitive processing.

At what age does math anxiety start?

A: It can begin as early as primary school, especially if a child feels embarrassed, pressured, or confused in maths lessons without the right support.

How can I overcome my own fear of maths?

A: Focus on building confidence with small, achievable wins. Use online tools, practice alongside your child with the fun activities above, and frame maths as a practical, everyday tool rather than a scary academic subject.

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